Manners are slipping

My manners slipped for the second time in my career so far, although I don't consider the first time being bad at all.... The first time my opponent was Terran, I played Zerg, and we ended up with very little on either side after a base trade. I remade a hatch and he had 3 structures and 2 medivacs full of stuff. I ended up taking down the medivacs that he was trying to do some damage with, with my still decent army. He just floated his structures into the corners of the map, since I didn't have any tech structures left. So I ended up having to go lair and then spire to get some mutas up, and I asked him if he had any resources left or if he was just being a dick. I don't think my question was really that inappropriate.

Today on the other hand I played a game as Terran against a Zerg. He ended up making a shitload of lings and just killed me right when I was trying to expand. Not a problem, I didn't play too well, he just got a fairly easy win. No BM here either.
Then we apparently both queue again and play each other again, I say "gl hf", he says "hi". Obviously at this point the game plan was clear, no gas, just racks, get minerals, get marines, go kill him. He more or less saw it coming and built a baneling nest and did quite a bit of damage with blings, but there was just no way he was going to live through what ended up being 5 racks and I still floated tons of minerals, so while rallying the racks into his base I took my gases, built an expo and a factory, which wasn't really necessary, i could have just killed him with the marines.

I just could not help myself and ended up telling him how much fun it is to zerg his noob ass.... I apologize.

Replays:
xyious vs LGW 1
xyious vs LGW 2